Gist: Domestic Violence: “Leave such surroundings completely” – Hilda Dokubo advises victims

Veteran actress, Hilda Dokubo has advised victims of domestic abuse to leave such an environment completely because the actions of a man who can hit a woman cannot be predicted.

In an interview with The PUNCH’s ‘Sunday Scoop’ where she was asked if she considers leaving an abusive marriage to be the solution to domestic violence, the actress said, “It depends on what the abuse is. My first option is not to leave your home. My first option will be to speak to the abused or the abuser. That is if the abuse is verbal, financial, psychological, or emotional.

“If that is the case, I will let the abuser understand that the abused can no longer take the abuse. The reason is that people don’t know that their spouse is being hurt by their actions.

“But, if it is physical abuse, my advice is that the person should leave the environment completely. The actions of a man who can hit a woman cannot be predicted. Such a person needs a mental evaluation.”

The actress also stated that religion and culture could not be absolved of blame in cases of domestic violence.

She added, “Cultural and religious institutions are the ‘creators’ of gender. They are the ones who say, ‘this is male and female, and that one is superior while the other is inferior’. God never classified men and women that way. Men and women were created equal.

“Traditional and religious leaders need to ensure that everybody is protected, including children. People should not be made vulnerable or exposed to danger because of the things they (religious and traditional leaders) approve of. Whatever is approved stays and whatever stays becomes a tradition.”